Communicating Under Pressure:
Supporting children & families across care settings

Practical communication strategies for emergency & evolving situations
Presenters on this webinar are Dr Caleb Gage, BTEMC, MPhil EM, PhD EM Clinical Advisor – Proficien Programme Manager City of Johannesburg EMS and Prof Jan du Plessis, MBChB, MMed Paed Paediatric Oncologist Universitas Academic Hospital, Bloemfontein
This Zoom webinar has a focus on communicating well in times of urgency and uncertainty, with an emphasis on helping patients and families feel heard, understood, and actively involved in decision making, even when time is limited. The presenters explored how skilled and compassionate communication can support a sense of shared understanding and a ‘dynamic of control’, where patients and families remain partners in care as situations evolve.
Assets from the webinar
- Presentation by Dr Caleb Gage https://patchsa.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/The-Posture-of-Meaningful-Communication-Dr-Caleb-Gage.pdf
- Presentation by Prof Jan du Plessis https://patchsa.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/Communicating-under-pressure-Prof-Jan-duPlessis.pdf
- Read the research paper The dynamic of control: A qualitative analysis of the perspectives of patients and family members with palliative care needs on Emergency Medical Services (authored by Caleb Gage, Liz Gwyther, and Willem Stassen) https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/26323524251409346
- An article on the paper can be found on this site at https://patchsa.org/new-south-african-research-on-ems-and-palliative-care/
- 10 Golden Phrases to Use when a child may die https://patchsa.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/Ten-golden-phrases-when-a-child-may-die-1.pdf
- Take the Patch Academy Course: Communication in Children’s Palliative Care
Navigating access to pain & symptom management
for children with rare diseases

In this PatchSA webinar, Kelly du Plessis, CEO of Rare Diseases South Africa talks about the need for palliative care for children with rare diseases. Many rare diseases are life-limiting or life-threatening, and often cause complex physical, emotional, and social challenges for the child and family. Because of this, children with rare diseases frequently need palliative care — not only at the end of life, but from the time of diagnosis and throughout the course of their illness. In South Africa and globally, rare diseases often lead to a palliative care need by default, because access to disease-specific treatment is limited and symptoms can be severe or progressive. Palliative care teams help fill this gap by ensuring comfort, dignity, and holistic care. The video also features a NF (Neurofibromatosis) warrior mom, Lebohang Leuta who speaks about the challenges of having to care for a child with a rare disease.
Seen & Unseen Suffering in Children’s Palliative Care

Assessing Physical & Spiritual Pain in Children’s Palliative Care
In this PatchSA webinar, held on 20 Aug 2025, Dr Michelle Meiring, founder of Paedspal, an expert on children’s pain, and convener of the Post-Graduate Diploma in Paediatric Palliative Care at the University of Cape Town and Sr Joan Marston, founder of Sunflower Children’s Hospice and global expert on and ambassador for palliative care for adults, children, and those in emergency and humanitarian situations, speak about the vital importance of thorough history taking and impeccable assessment of the physical and spiritual suffering of children with palliative care needs.
Download the presentations as PDFs
Assessing Seen and Unseen Physical Pain in Children – Dr Michelle Meiring
Assessing Spiritual Suffering in Children – Sr Joan Marston
Withholding & Withdrawing of Treatment in Perinatal Palliative Care

Withholding and withdrawing of treatment in perinatal palliative care
A webinar hosted by PatchSA on Wednesday 10 September 2025 in which Dr Julia Ambler, Medical Director of Umduduzi Hospice Care for Children, gives valuable insight into the ethics and decision-making process with regard to withholding and withdrawing treatment when a baby is receiving perinatal palliative care. Throughout the webinar she emphasises the need for open and honest communication, including deep listening, with the parents and with professional colleagues and talks about the need for being respectful when opinions may differ.

